Setting goals and keeping them!

It’s amazing how much we as adults and sometimes self professed “know it alls” will make the very same mistakes or poessess the very same poor habits as our younger counterparts in their teens and early adulthood. Staying focused and on task to completion is one of them.

In fact this is so common yet so obvious that we all, myself included seem to fail at it. Failing to complete a task, a goal or even a personal commitment can cost us so much not just financial and academically but personally.

Biting off too much?

Biting off too much?

Starting big!

Starting big!

The two most common areas where more of us than not seem to drop the ball… physical conditioning and studying. If we just accomplish half the things we had set on mind on when it came to getting into better shape or doing better in school we probably have a bunch of muscle-bound nerds walking across some beach on their way to a physics symposium, lol.

 

Know your limits

Know your limits

 

 

and succeed, one step at a time!

and succeed, one step at a time!

 

 

 

 

 

 

As older working adults the very same concepts that apply to doing well in school apply to those of us already working full time. Who doesn’t want to stay or become in shape. Both only require that whatever personal promises we made to ourselves are specific and not broad strokes. For example if your carrying a C in Algebra 2, then work your butt off and fight for that B. Sure, I know Educators and Parents will push that A… But I was more than happy to just pass with a B! A B or even a C for that matter that is hard earned will carry you much further than the A that came too easy.

Have goals that you know you can achieve, and is measurable as the above acronym spells it out. You want to know when you’ve met them. The goals must be achievable and realistic. If you create visions in your head that propel you from A to Z you might be in for a let down. The saying goes “Shoot for the stars” , but I believe setting up goals that you know your capable of and in a timely manner will help to keep the taste  of success in your mouth much longer.

Rebuild March 2013

Bouncing back!

Bouncing back!

I’ve finally got around to revamping this site for the benefit of helping students and young people see the world of school and life in a different perspective. Sure there are a million plus one sites with the same message, but I can only lend my hand and share some of the success I have had personally with the many wayward students I meet on a daily basis.

I like to tell the young person sitting across from me who just got kicked out of their house, failed a class or were on their way to being suspended for getting caught with some pot or a cigarette that I don’t feel too sorry for them.

Sure better choices could have been made;  wondering where they’re going to stay that night with no home to go to… or guess how he or she is going to explain  to their parents that they both need to show up in court and answer a possible $500 fine for flipping off the teacher! Yes, for sure that day could have a gone a bit easier.

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BUT! I still feel no sadness for them, but instead laugh and let that one student in that moment know that these are the things they’ll laugh about one day. It’s what one does tomorrow and and the next day, month and years to come that really matters. I understand from the point of view of that student sitting across from me that all seems lost and hopeless. However, I try and share that it’s funny how the older one gets the faster time moves. Oh, to be young again…